Today I went to help my mom with some filing at the law office she works at. She needed help, she offered money and the use of her car so I could go see the girls (my car is still in California) so I went.
As I was sorting through endless piles of pleadings, I started to see a pattern in some of the attachments. There were lots of pages of printouts of text messages. And they ALL could have been written by my ex. Holy Crap. They were identical to something he would have said. And they weren't all men that were the obvious aggressors here...some were women. I was shocked. I mean, I'm the only one who had to go through that bullshit....still go through that bullshit. Right? Apparently not. Who knew? I sure as hell didn't!
That really did strike a chord with me. I'm not alone. I know people tell you that you aren't the only one, everyone goes through similar stuff, etc. But to hear that and to understand that are two different things. Today I understood it.
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